Thursday, 2 May 2013

THOUGHTS TO CREATE YOUR DESTINY



What I want to highlight here is the fact that you have within you the power to create anything you want, and the storehouse of this power is your subconscious mind. Gerry Robert, author of The Millionaire Mindset and my mentor, used the Captain and Crew analogy to explain the relationship between the conscious and subconscious mind. The conscious mind is the Captain and the subconscious mind is the Crew. The subconscious mind (Crew) listens to the instructions given by the conscious mind (Captain), and obediently brings the instructions into reality.

One important thing to note is the Crew is not capable of formulating its own thinking. If the Captain fails to give specific instruction to the Crew, the Crew will just take ANY instruction passed to it and bring it to reality. (Read this statement again.) Joseph Murphy, author of The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind, illustrated that you are the Gardener and your subconscious mind is the fertile Soil. Your subconscious mind is capable to growing all kinds of seeds (seeds of thought) that you sow. The seeds are planted based on your habitual thinking.

So if you want apple fruits (the effect), you have to plant apple seeds (the cause). This is also the law of cause and effect. If you want to change your external conditions (the effect), you have to change your cause, which is your seed of thought. Unfortunately, most people try to change their conditions by working on those conditions. They fail to realize that an apple is still an apple. Regardless of how hard they work on it, it will not turn into an orange. What they need to do instead is to start planting orange seeds.
During a Brian Tracy seminar, he said
"Thoughts are Causes, Conditions are Effect"
Change the cause and you change the effect.
Change your thoughts and you change your conditions.

 #1 – Watch your thoughts and your words
From today onwards, stop all the negative thinking that come across your mind. The moment you realize that you are thinking of something that you do not want, tell yourself "cancel!" and then start thinking of things that you want. Having said that, if you have any negative thinking without you realizing it, just let it pass and think of something positive to end that thought. Never revisit the negative thinking and say "cancel". Doing this will only add power to the negative thought. The thought manifests as the word; the word manifests as the deed. The deed develops into habit; and habit hardens into character. The next thing to watch is your words.
Never end your words with a negative statement. Make it a habit to reverse it into something positive.
Never say "I can't" because when you say "I can't", your subconscious mind simply takes the instruction and manifests the reality of you can't.

The real power of the subconscious mind
Your subconscious mind works according to the law of belief. The statement "If you believe you can, you can" has been so overly emphasized by success gurus that if I just tell you again, it will not make much difference to your life. 

If you believe you can, the universe will provide you with all the necessary people, events and resources to help you develop the necessary abilities to make you can. All you need to do at this stage is an open mind and willingness to learn. Then, it will give you the opportunities to prove that you can. All you have to do then is to believe in yourself and just do it.

Belief is simply a thought that has been accepted as truth by first your conscious mind and then your subconscious mind. Belief will only take on its power when it is accepted by your subconscious mind. So merely saying "I believe I can", may not change your life, but saying "I believe I can" every single day of your life and start acting as if you can never fail, will surely move you forward.

If your subconscious truly believes that you can, fear and doubt will never be an option to you.
There is no right or wrong beliefs, only beliefs that are accepted as truth by you. If you believe in the power of your subconscious mind, you are right. If you don’t believe in the power of your subconscious mind, you are also right. Either way, it's your choice. 

#2 – Exercise your power of choice everyday

We are going to focus on hetero-suggestion, suggestion from other people. Your subconscious mind is sensitive to suggestions, be it auto-suggestions or hetero-suggestions. You must be careful to listen to suggestions that inspire, elevate and motivate you. Never listen to complaints or suggestions by pessimists and negative people. Read only books written by successful people; books that inspire and motivate you; books that tell you the truth about life. Never read books by pessimistic writers and shift your attention away from those negative stories in your daily newspaper. Your conscious mind is the gatekeeper that guards your subconscious mind from accepting beliefs that are not useful to you. Whenever you hear something that is negative, pessimistic or not inline with what you want to achieve, turn a deaf ear to those information! No not give any energy to accept or even repel those information. Never join in the discussion. Choose to believe only in good things and choose to listen to and read information that move you forward. Your greatest power is your power to choose. Choose greatness, happiness and healthiness and life will be wonderful for you.

#3 – Do affirmation everyday
The way to do it is very simple. Every morning and evening, before and after work, repeat to yourself
"I'm the best, I'm the greatest, I am extremely successful." If you drive, shout it out loud in your car, fast and with enthusiasm. Take in deep breath whenever you shout.  Enthusiasm and deep breath are two important ingredients in this exercise. Why enthusiasm? Because our subconscious is easily activated by emotion. Why deep breath? Because oxygen will increase your divine energy and will make this exercise more powerful.
How many times should you repeat? As many times as you want! Usually about 5 minutes for each session because it's quite tiring! If you do not drive, simply repeat this in your mind. Make it a habit to repeat it whenever you walk, so that whenever you walk, you will automatically do this affirmation. You must do this exercise for at least 30 days to realize changes in yourself. If you have low self worth, this exercise will increase your self esteem. If you are lost and do not know what you want in life, this exercise will help you to find direction and find your interest in life. If you are already sure of what you want, this exercise will bring you the opportunity you need to succeed.

The kind of result that will happen to you depends on which phase of life you are currently at.
Within 30 days after doing this simple exercise, in my car, I was amazed to discover that my years of slouch back problem was miraculously resolved! I think my slouch back problem was a reflection of my low self worth and when my self image improves, the problem just resolved automatically.
For the rest of the time during your journey everyday, listen to good CD programs that can reprogram your subconscious mind.

Everyday, I think you can easily spend one hour for affirmations. If you use these hours to reprogram your subconscious mind, in a few months, you would have developed a powerful successful mindset, which will surely bring about positive changes to your life. That's the law of life. It can't be otherwise! As within, so without. Your physical life is simply a reflection of your inner world. If your mindset elevates, your life must follow. 

#4 - Visualise your self to create your life

Your subconscious mind cannot differentiate between what is real and what is vividly imagined. As long as you keep repeating the images, what you visualize will inevitably appear in your life. 





  Everyday, before you sleep and after you wake up, sit on your bed, get into alpha and visualize the life that you desire. How do you visualize? Visualization is not just seeing in your mind's eye. It is about living in your mind's eye. When I say living, I mean using your five senses to make the images as real as possible. This is possible when you are in alpha because when you are in alpha, you tend to be more focus and you will forget about your present surrounding and fully immerge yourself in you world of visualization. As what Jose Silva put it, the difference between visualizing in Beta and Alpha is like saying the word swim and actually swimming. When you visualize in Alpha, you will realize that you can visualize better and the images that you visualize is so vivid that you may end up thinking that the images are real! The clearer the visualization, the faster it shows up in reality.

Memorize the following!

To further strengthen your visualization process, you can create a dream board, a board with pictures of all the things you desire, such as your house, your car and your bank statement.
When you visualize, you must be clear what is it that you really want in life.
Many people keep changing what they visualize and in the end they achieve nothing through visualization. Don’t commit the same mistake. 




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